Wednesday, April 22, 2015

Father Knows Best

This past weekend was the kickoff of the Kentucky Derby Festival.  For those not familiar with the activities leading up to the greatest two minutes in sports, the city of Louisville begins the celebration two weeks before the big race.  It kicks off with a boom at Thunder Over Louisville.  The largest fireworks display in the country is displayed over the Ohio River with more than half a million people gathered at the river to watch.  

My friend, Ashley, found a wonderful way to enjoy this festivity - a Steamboat Dinner Cruise to watch the fireworks.  Like me, Ashley is an only child and introvert and the thought of commiserating with thousands of people isn't appealing.  This was the perfect way to view the fireworks.  We would board at 6pm and sail at 7pm with the fireworks at 9:30pm.  We were excited.  Until Wednesday prior to the event.  Due to the water levels from all the rain we've received, the steamboat couldn't make it to the port in Indiana, so the cruise was canceled.  We were quite bummed but moved on to Plan B.  

Plan B was to see the Cinderella feature film and dinner after.  Knowing my love of Cinderella, this was a wonderful Plan B in my book.  We did see the movie (which I adored!) and enjoyed some yummy food at Red Robin, back in time to watch the fireworks on TV.  

Do you ever ask God why He allows things to happen (or not happen) in your life?  I certainly do.  Things that occur and I think "what!?!" and sometimes later on I realize His Protective Hand on me or see the bigger reasons why something did or didn't happen.  When those times never come with an answer, that's when my faith must grow to trust God.  But, God does sometimes provide those answers to help me trust Him when He is silent in other situations.

I mentioned the cruise was canceled on Wednesday.  Thursday night when I came home from work I felt awful.  I thought it was allergies or maybe the start of a Spring cold.  But I felt tired, listless and began to feel feverish.  I took two Tylenol and couldn't wait to crawl into bed.  Especially when I took my temperature and it was 100.  I had a feeling I knew what was going on.  The heel of my right foot was tender to the touch and was red and warm.  I was getting cellulitis.  For those who do not know what that is, the simple answer is a bacterial infection of the skin.  Because my immune system is suppressed due to the medicines I'm on, I'm highly susceptible to this and have had it before.  It's very easily treated, but if you don't catch it quick enough, it can spread and require hospitalization.  I called the doctor the next morning, got in to see him, got antibiotics and felt like I'd dodged a hospital bullet.  Part of the recovery is not to overdo it and be on my foot too much and keep it propped up as much as possible.  I did and after my check up yesterday, I'm on the mend.  

All of these colliding events show me that Father knows best.  Though I was bummed I didn't get to see fireworks on the Ohio aboard a steamboat, God knew better that I didn't need to be up and on my foot that much.  He protected me.  Watching a movie in a theater was much less "activity" and allowed me to get the rest I needed.  Though every situation like this will not come with a lovely answer as to the "why," I am grateful that God gives me enough of these answers to keep trusting Him even in His Silence. 

Monday, April 20, 2015

Cooking for One

I truly enjoy cooking and baking.  But there are a few things about those enjoyments that keep it from being a regular occurance in my life.  I'm single, so cooking solo is difficult.  I end up with leftovers for days.  Days!  And although I enjoy good leftovers, day five of something that I've had for lunch and dinner makes me want to never cook that recipe again for a while. Then there is my work schedule, church involvement and school...along with some semblance of a social life and doing all of this while planning meals is futile.  Add to that making it healthy and I throw up my hands and end up eating cereal, peanut butter and crackers, or scrambled eggs.

My company began a wellness campaign last year.  We were invited to multiple webinars on was to maintain wellness from eating healthy to getting enough rest.  Some were interesting and some were painful to sit through, but the end result was a bonus.  Everyone that attended a webinar was in a drawing for multiple prizes after the year ended.  I was in a drawing for an Apple Watch since I attended all six.  But, I didn't win the Apple Watch, but I did win something even better - a gift certificate to Plated

Plated is a subscription service where you can order "plates" each week that make two servings each.  Everything is sent in an insulated bag - all meat, fish, vegetables, seasonings - and all in the exact measurements you need.  You can have Plated choose your plates, or you can choose the recipes you would prefer.  They list the cooking difficulty and calories, plus what you'll need to have.  Most of the supplies you need are already in your pantry - salt, pepper, olive oil, canola oil, milk, eggs - and various pots and pans.  They even offer desserts for two if you'd like to add that to your weekly shipment.  


My first dish was Ginger Trout with snap peas and roasted sweet potatoes.  I was hooked!  I've never cooked fish at home and this turned out beautifully.  Plated even sent the parchment paper I cooked the trout in along with all the various aromatic seasonings to make it taste just right!  I was sent just enough snow peas and other seasonings.  Even the sesame oil came in it's pre-measured bottle.  When I cooked the dish, I plated both plates up and wrapped one up to put in the fridge I would warm up for a second dinner that week.  

I have to admit I'm in love.  Eating these meals has helped me eat a more balanced diet and the more healthy I eat, the less non-healthy food is a craving.  Most days I work past 6pm so getting home at 7 or later and knowing I have a meal to cook that could take 45 minutes wouldn't have thrilled me before, but knowing I can just pull out the items labeled for the dish and jump in makes it much easier.

If you are living solo, or even a couple that have no kids or are empty nesters and you you have an adventurous streak to try new things, I'd highly recommend Plated.  As I'm burning through my gift card, I'm monitoring my grocery budget and if I save money on groceries that equal the cost of Plated, I'm going to keep doing it.  Oh, and did I mention you can skip any week you want with no penalty?  Another plus!  Here is a way to join Plated and get $24 off your first box: https://www.plated.com/invites/1c83a1.  It can't hurt to try! 

Tuesday, March 31, 2015

Top Five Memorable Movie Dresses

Last week marked the 25th anniversary of Pretty Woman.  Whew, I feel old.  But that movie never grows old for a lover of the fairy tale.  One of the things most memorable (aside from all the amazing quotes) were the dresses and outfits Julia Roberts' character wore.  That got my mind thinking.  What are some of the most memorable movie dresses for me?  You may have a list of your own, but for me, this is the list that comes to mind as the Top Five.

   5.  Gone With the Wind Curtain Dress - 
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Scarlett O'Hara wore many hoopy dresses during this civil war classic, but the one that is my favorite is known as the "curtain dress."  She made this dress from curtains at Tara and was a symbol of survival.  Aside from the velvety nature of it, I think it's quite stylish.  If Scarlett O'Hara was on Project Runway, she'd win.





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4.  Cinderella's Dress - Of course, being the Cinderella fanatic I am, this dress had to make the list.  This could be the only one (or one of a few) dresses created by a fairy godmother.  For those purists, you'll realize that the dress in the movie is really white, but in all promotions and other pictures of Cinderella, the dress is portrayed blue.  If you watch the movie when she looks at her reflection in the water, you'll see a blue hue to the dress.  And as she strolls with Prince Charming there are some blue tints there as well.  In any case, we all want to be Cinderella. 




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3. Maria's dress in Sound of Music - Maria came to the Von Trapp mansion in borrowed clothes from the convent.  But this dress she wore the night she and the Captain danced together for the first time.  His tractor was definitely cranked for Maria!  And I love this picture because it depicts her looking at him with that same adoration.  




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2.  Vivian's dress in Pretty Woman - There were lots of beautiful outfits in this movie - the little black dress she wore to the business dinner - the ensemble she wore to the polo match.  But this red dress was exquisite.  Edward was flying her to see the opera "Pirates of Penzance."  To add to this ensemble he surprised her with a beautiful necklace and earrings to wear for the occasion that he borrowed, worth thousands.  Simply gorgeous.  Vivian cried during the performance and stated afterwards, "I almost peed my pants!"  Girls dream of being swept off in a private jet to a glorious night with a doting gentleman.  


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1.  Betty's dress in White Christmas - As a fan of this movie, you may only focus on the dress Rosemary Clooney wore at the end that was all Christmasy, but when I think of this movie, THIS is the dress!  Bob (Bing Crosby) had captured her heart, but had not played his cards right (what man does, really?) and she decided to distance herself to protect her heart.  She was going back out on her to perform and forget all about the ache in her heart from Bob.  Betty is singing at a night club, the appropriate tune "Love, You Didn't Do Right By Me" when Bob shows up.  The last thing we want to see is a love we're trying to get over show up when we're trying to move on.  I felt every pang in Betty's heart!  But, like the classy performer, she continued on flawlessly.  You can                                                     watch the clip.
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I've included the front and the back picture of this dress because it just deserves the full view.  Seriously, this dress is perfect.  If I ever get married, having this dress in white would be amazing...if I had the body for it.  But, I really believe God is going to adorn me like this when I get my glorified body.  Really, this dress is stunning.  It is, by far, my most memorable movie dress.  

Monday, March 02, 2015

Why I'm Wild About Harry

Saturday evening, my partner in crime, Amy, and I headed to the Louisville Palace to see one of my favorite artists, Harry Connick, Jr.  I was extremely geeked!!  The last time I saw him in concert was quite a few years ago with my Trinidadian sister, Jan.  She loved him as much as I did and had never seen a "real" concert before in person.  I surprised her with tickets and Harry didn't disappoint.  Now that Jan is living in Heaven, I decided to treat my sister from another mister for her birthday to enjoy all of this Harry goodness.  Again, he did not disappoint. 

Harry came out at 8pm - no opening act needed - sat down on the piano bench, and started entertaining.  He played and sang non-stop for two hours.  For a man who has been a successful performer for more than 20 years, he is extremely non-pretentious.  Never did he once refer to his gig on American Idol because, to him, I'm sure it's just that - just another gig utilizing his passion.  Harry talked about how Rob Reiner recruited him to do the score for "When Harry Met Sally."  He shared how he learned to play the piano from some of the jazz greats in his hometown of New Orleans.  And he made sure every member of his band had the spotlight.  It felt much like we'd been invited in his living room for a personal jam session.  Harry even played the trumpet.  Exquisite.  

One of the songs he sang was "One Fine Thing" from his latest album "Every Man Should Know."  He sat on a stool and said "This song makes me think of my wife every time I sing it."  For a man who has been married to the same woman for more than 20 years and still swoons over her, that makes me swoon over him more.  I've posted the music video below to enjoy.  I may post a review on my YouTube channel at some point, so be sure to subscribe there as well.  Yes, I'm wild about Harry.  


Friday, February 27, 2015

The Gospel According to The Dress

It's Friday and the world is a buzz about "the dress."  Is it white and gold?  Is it blue and black?  This debate literally took up a majority of the Today Show this morning and was featured in the first half hour, which is usually reserved for more pressing news items.  

I'll admit I see both, depending on the picture.  When I first saw this dress hit social media last night, I saw white and gold.  While watching the Today Show this morning, I still saw some pictures as white and gold and others as blue and black.  If this wasn't a marketing ploy for the dressmaker, they missed a grand opportunity.  I think there has been more coverage of this dress than the Oscars.  Brian Williams says it's a red dress (I kid).  

There are a couple of scientific reasons cited for this phenomenon.  First, older people's eyes are less sensitive to blue light.  This could explain why older folks see white and gold.  (No comment, people.  I see blue and black too)  The other explanation is the illumination of the digital images we see.  Depending on the lighting, some settings have a blue hue, causing the blue to look white.  Digital images, or anything not in person for that matter, can be deceiving.  

The interesting part of this debate is there is one way you can accurately identify the dress colors (sans color blindness of course).  If you see it in person.  For those who see it in person, there is no optical impediments to assessing the colors.  With no barriers between the real dress and us, there is no question the color.

I'm reminded of a verse in I Corinthians 13:12: For now we see indistinctly, as in a mirror, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I will know fully, as I am fully known.

When I look at this dress and I see different colors, I begin to doubt my own eyes.  Is it truly white and gold?  Is it truly blue and black?  I know if it was right in front of my face, the doubts would be over.  

Some days I wonder, "Did God protect me from that?"  "Is God really listening?"  "Does God really care about me?"  I trust in faith that He is protecting me.  He is listening.  He does care.  But one day, I'll see Him face to face.  No more looking through a glass darkly.  What I know in part will be fully known.  And there will be no doubts.